When Dad Hurts Mom
When Dad Hurts Mom: Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse
by Lundy Bancroft (Author)
This book, along with Why Does He Do That, helped me through the first year of separation from my husband. I was still considering the marriage and had not settled on divorce yet. But this book helped me see the ways abuse was trickling down to the kids too, and I needed to get us out.