Sex doesn't keep a relationship alive; a relationship keeps sex alive.
When I asked if love was in the cards they said, "You are love.”
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The Marital Coercion Playbook is how it sounds. It's a compilation of the "plays" of coercive people, all the things they say and do to get sex when their partner doesn't want to do it.
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Marital Coercion: sexual coercion within marriage and long term relationships
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Objectification
Read nowThe Effects of Sexual Objectification on Women's Mental Health (NYU Applied Psychology)
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12 Types of Intimacy
Read nowFor many people, the word "intimacy" comes with a lot of associations, and most of them are physical. But believe it or not, there are 12 — yes,12 —different ways to form an intimate connection with a romantic partner...
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Why do victims stay?
Read nowIf you've ever asked why people stay in these toxic and abusive relationships, this will help you better understand the situation.
Letter From a Husband
Read the letter I received from a changed husband in 2021 that gave me the courage to keep going, sharing my story, so more people could learn from my broken marriage.
The responsibility of the black sheep is to be what others fear they cannot, to show them that they can.
Do you want to feel desired by your wife? Or do you want your wife to feel desire?
Follow me on threads for more conversation @natlajune
Consent isn’t just making sure the answer is yes—it’s being okay when the answer is no.
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