Tiktok Archive

Since I began documenting this story on Tiktok I’ve made thousands of videos. I won’t be able to record them all here, but as I have time I’m working to capture a few of the more significant moments we’ve shared, as you have come along side me to help me heal.

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  • 9/18/21 |

    Sex Scenes in the Movies

    For a lot of women who have been sexualized and objectified, there eventually comes a point where even catching a glimpse of another couple engaging physically can be triggering.

    After many years of being guilt tripped and shamed for saying no to sex, no headache or fatigue a good enough “excuse” it is common to turn off to all sexual themes. Seeing a mannequin in a bikini or even oneself in the mirror is a trigger. In this video we talk about sex scenes in the movies as a trigger.

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@mending.me is back and I’m re-uploading old videos from the beginning while I work on my book. Follow along if you’re still on TikTok!